Re-thinking my list
I previously put down all the qualities I want in a man. The things I thought were important. I have heard it said that having such a list magically attracts THAT very kind of man that you want. An acquaintance who had a similar list had listed down the minutest details, and she met THE man, who answered the very description. The catch? He was married. Single was not one of the attributes she had on her list. I wonder if that is the same thing that has happened to me. I met a guy who seemed to have most of the qualities on my must have list, if not all, and most of what's on the nice to have list. I have known him for 12 weeks now. I know for sure that he is not the one. Reason? He does not have alpha maleness about him. By this I mean he does not exude the air of a sure-footed, proud man...one who is the director of his life, and will be a companion and the wise and undisputed head of the family that we shall have. It has struck me that this quality is not on my list at all. My ...